Religion and a relationship with God are two different things. A strong example of this is how we approach our prayer lives. Praying should be communion with God, not religious tradition. Looking at it from the lens of grace gives us the right perspective.
We must pray from our hearts, but religion turns our prayers into recitations of empty words. Jesus gave the people a general outline for prayer, which later came to be called “The Lord’s Prayer.” This is a beautiful prayer, but because Jesus was fulfilling two ministries at once before His death and resurrection, much of it is Old-Testament based. He never meant for it to be memorized and recited word-for-word.
New-Testament prayer is prayed in Jesus’ name. Jesus told His disciples that previously they asked for nothing in His name, but the Father would give them whatever they asked in His name. He said to ask, and they would receive, so that their joy would be made full. This was definitely not an Old-Testament mindset.
There’s no power in simply reciting the Lord’s Prayer from memory. Jesus taught a model of effective prayer that begins and ends with thanksgiving and praise, with our petitions sandwiched in the middle. We’re to make a joyful shout to God, sing the honor of His name, make His praise glorious, and declare how awesome His works are. We can rejoice evermore, pray without ceasing, and give thanks in everything.
Powerful prayers are based in gratitude and thankfulness, not fear of retribution or punishment. David prayed for God to hear his cry for mercy and not to bring him into judgment. By contrast, Psalm 136 is devoted to giving God thanks for His mercy and deliverance. Praying with the right attitude keeps us in the joy of God’s presence.
Scriptures:
Matthew 6:8-13
John 16:23, 24
Psalm 66:1-3, NKJV
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
Psalm 143:1, 2, NIV
Psalm 136:1-26
For an in-depth study on effective prayer in the kingdom of God, check out Creflo Dollar’s 10-message series, Prayer Into Communion, or his book, Foundations for Christian Living: Praying in Tongues Edition.